My husband and I have broken up because of his womanising. He's now living in a bedsit down the road, but has begged me not to tell our families we've split up. He's hoping for a reconciliation while he works through his need to have other women!
Everyone thought we were the perfect couple and he wants to keep that idea going. But I hate lying and, while I still love him, I don't know if I want him back.
I'm longing to speak to my family but, if they find out what he's been up to, they'll tell me to keep away from him. He says that by keeping quiet I'm giving our relationship a chance, but am I being a complete fool? B, 28, Norfolk

Dear B,
are you for fucking real??!! 
The reason this sad sack of shit doesn't want your family to know about his philandering ways is because he knows they'll string the fucker up by his bollocks, deservedly! 
What planet are you on even entertaining the idea that his 'Mr Perfect Husband' title should be upheld while he sticks his wick in every skanky whore prepared to open her legs? Well?!?
This cunt doesn't give a shit about you. He cares for himself alone, and you should unleash the hounds forthwith. Tell the world what a vile, narcissistic piece of work he is. Laugh at his demise. Tart yourself up and flaunt a new, young, buff lover under his nose, the wanker deserves it.
Unless, of course, he did it because you're frigid, in which case what do you expect. A man needs an outlet.
Auntie.