Dear Auntie
My boyfriend's a bit of a bull in a china shop when it comes to sex and, to be honest, I feel rather battered afterwards. I've told him a thousand times that a bit of gentleness would work wonders, but I know he doesn't think that's manly. It's got to the stage now where I try to avoid sex, which is awful because I love him.
Natalie, Cumbria.

Dear Natalie
For Fk's sake, woman! You are being mauled by a freakin rapist and you "love him"? You are exactly the sad sort of stupid bitch that is responsible for making men think this kind of behaviour is acceptable! Next time he gets a bit rough, try suggesting that you tie HIM to the bed and ram a dildo up his overbearing ass and see how the fk HE likes it rough!!  Betcha he changes tack pronto.
Auntie